Friday, April 15, 2005 two months. i'm surprised i am still alive. are you still staring at the sky?
read this in a magazine quite some time ago but i thought that it'd be interesting to share it. haha. read on :)
the women have it better
while we may think men have it easier after a break-up, research shows that they may actually suffer more. when men are in intimate relationships, they open up their innermost and repressed emotions and when they're going through a break-up, they tend to hide their pain, which can lead to physical breakdowns [migraines, fatigue, etc]. women, on the other hand, often share their suffering and surround themselves with friends and family to help them through, making the difficult time easier to get through.
wow i actually have it better. bulls.
i want to buy cleo to read.
ripped this off friendster.
just something to read? :D
loving a girl
love the girl in your heart, not in your mind. if you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups and downs in feelings. girls are there to be loved and not toyed around.
love her for who she is. don't even think about changing any bit of her. six billion people in the world and six billion different personalities. she's special and she will stay that way. you change any part of her, you change her forever. don't substitue her for anyone else, they are just as unique in their own ways.
love wholeheartedly. she sacrificed a lot for you so you better really love her. she could have just got up and dated a much more dashing guy in town but she chose you instead all because of love. so love her guys, don't play with her. don't just get the girl to beg you to stay or whatsoever. if you're with her, love her.
don't cause a strain in the relationship. you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity, that's not respecting love at all. respect love the way it is and everything will be the best that it can be. i've been there and i know how it feels.
don't expect perfection from her. she is the only one in the world and she has done the best she can.
like another girl while you are in a relationship? then i think it's time you remain single for a while. don't go around breaking girls hearts, it's the most tragic thing to do.
tell the truth. never hide anything from her. if you want her to tell you everything, do the same.
don't go calling other girls "honey" or "darling". how would it feel if your girl called other guys the same way? be faithful. enough is enough.
socialise only when you are single. you socialise and flirt around to get the girl of your dreams. get it over when she is already yours, don't ask for more.
it never kills to be romantic. think, be flexible. getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her. be realistic. she's human and she lives life just like you. something sweet and simple always gets the job done.
money doesn't exsist between couples. it is the love.
never promise her that you will love her forever because your forever might end the next day. love her as if each day is the last.
sweet talking only applies to singles, not for attached guys. do that and you'll really break your girl's heart.
it isn't good being too well-known too. it gives her a sense of insecurity. remember insecurity.
promise her and make sure you never break your promise. swear to her and make sure you live up to your word. pledge your love to her and her alone.
loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to. same goes for her. giving you her heart means allowing you to break it and trusting you not to. instead she'll cherish and protect it. shouldn't you do the same as well? that's love.
give her your heart, your live, your everything. lay down your life and prepare to die for her when the need arises. but stay strong and live through another day, she can never live without you.
never, ever walk out of her life. she won't just cry her heart out and carry on living as per normal. she will die.
it's her heart that you've broken. how would you ever know how she feels?
winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. don't leave her once you've won her love. love her all the way till the end of time, love her till marriage , love her till old, love her till death. if you can love her till the end of time, you've earned the honour and respect for you've truly loved her.
she chooses you because she believes that you can fufil your promise. win her heart back and love her all over again.
that's all.
nites world :)
-praying
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